[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.gartier.sk\/pozitivna-verzus-negativna-motivacia\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.gartier.sk\/pozitivna-verzus-negativna-motivacia\/","headline":"Pozit\u00edvna verzus negat\u00edvna motiv\u00e1cia","name":"Pozit\u00edvna verzus negat\u00edvna motiv\u00e1cia","description":"Ka\u017ed\u00fd jeden rodi\u010d si aspo\u0148 raz za \u017eivot polo\u017e\u00ed ot\u00e1zku, \u010di je lep\u0161ie deti motivova\u0165 pochvalami a odmenami, alebo naopak z\u00e1kazmi a trestami. Nu\u017e, nie je to \u013eahk\u00e9 rozhodnutie. Ka\u017ed\u00e1 motiv\u00e1cia m\u00e1 nie\u010do do seba. Najd\u00f4le\u017eitej\u0161ie je, zvoli\u0165 t\u00fa spr\u00e1vnu, v z\u00e1vislosti na povahe die\u0165a\u0165a, danej situ\u00e1cie, ale aj veku. V s\u00fa\u010dasnosti \u017eijeme v \u010dasoch, kedy zo v\u0161etk\u00fdch str\u00e1n po\u010d\u00favame, […]","datePublished":"2018-11-16","dateModified":"2018-11-16","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.gartier.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.gartier.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/cfe4dae5aaf43720425415780408681beb9b9a829e9a657295ed1cacce5febc2?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/cfe4dae5aaf43720425415780408681beb9b9a829e9a657295ed1cacce5febc2?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"gartier.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.gartier.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a294103_w2025_t1543515773.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.gartier.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a294103_w2025_t1543515773.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.gartier.sk\/pozitivna-verzus-negativna-motivacia\/","wordCount":451,"articleBody":"Ka\u017ed\u00fd jeden rodi\u010d si aspo\u0148 raz za \u017eivot polo\u017e\u00ed ot\u00e1zku, \u010di je lep\u0161ie deti motivova\u0165 pochvalami a odmenami, alebo naopak z\u00e1kazmi a trestami. Nu\u017e, nie je to \u013eahk\u00e9 rozhodnutie. Ka\u017ed\u00e1 motiv\u00e1cia m\u00e1 nie\u010do do seba. Najd\u00f4le\u017eitej\u0161ie je, zvoli\u0165 t\u00fa spr\u00e1vnu, v z\u00e1vislosti na povahe die\u0165a\u0165a, danej situ\u00e1cie, ale aj veku.  V s\u00fa\u010dasnosti \u017eijeme v \u010dasoch, kedy zo v\u0161etk\u00fdch str\u00e1n po\u010d\u00favame, \u017ee deti treba st\u00e1le chv\u00e1li\u0165 a to aj za t\u00fa najmen\u0161iu mali\u010dkos\u0165. Na deti netreba kri\u010da\u0165, lep\u0161\u00ed je rozhovor a celkov\u00e1 pokojn\u00e1 atmosf\u00e9ra. Namiesto z\u00e1kazov, by sme deti mali rad\u0161ej povzbudzova\u0165 pochvalami a odmenami. Je v\u0161ak tak\u00fdto pr\u00edstup naozaj ten najlep\u0161\u00ed?  Tak ako pri v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ine vec\u00ed v \u017eivote, aj tu plat\u00ed zlat\u00e9 pravidlo, \u017ee v\u0161etk\u00e9ho ve\u013ea \u0161kod\u00ed. Ak budete svoje die\u0165a st\u00e1le chv\u00e1li\u0165 a odme\u0148ova\u0165, ur\u010dite pre\u017eije to najkraj\u0161ie detstvo na svete. Av\u0161ak potom, pr\u00edde puberta, mlados\u0165, dospelos\u0165 a na\u0161e st\u00e1le chv\u00e1len\u00e9 die\u0165a za\u010dne ma\u0165 probl\u00e9my. Pre\u010do? Preto\u017ee nast\u00fapi na z\u00e1kladn\u00fa \u0161kolu, kde ho nebud\u00fa chv\u00e1li\u0165 za to, \u017ee nap\u00edsalo p\u00edsomku na trojku a taktie\u017e nedostane pochvalu za to, \u017ee h\u00e1dzalo kriedu po spolu\u017eiakovi. To nesp\u00f4sob\u00ed len zl\u00e9 v\u00fdsledky v \u0161kole, ale aj zm\u00e4tenos\u0165 samotn\u00e9ho die\u0165a\u0165a. To toti\u017e nebude ch\u00e1pa\u0165, pre\u010do bolo do teraz iba chv\u00e1len\u00e9 a zrazu prich\u00e1dzaj\u00fa tresty, z\u00e1kazy, pr\u00edkazy.  Neexistuje v\u0161eobecn\u00fd n\u00e1vod, ko\u013eko pozit\u00edvnej a ko\u013eko negat\u00edvnej motiv\u00e1cie aplikova\u0165 do \u017eivota svojich potomkov. Z\u00e1kaz, alebo trest v pr\u00edpade, \u017ee die\u0165a urob\u00ed nie\u010do nespr\u00e1vne, v\u0161ak ur\u010dite zaru\u010d\u00ed, \u017ee lep\u0161ie pochop\u00ed mantinely vo svojom \u017eivote. Tie mus\u00edme toti\u017e dodr\u017eiava\u0165 a ma\u0165, v\u0161etci. Nie s\u00fa potrebn\u00e9 iba pre \u0161kolu, ale najm\u00e4 pre re\u00e1lny \u017eivot, v ktorom mus\u00edme pracova\u0165, plati\u0165 \u00fa\u010dty, chodi\u0165 k doktorovi a robi\u0165 \u010fal\u0161ie be\u017en\u00e9 veci. Z poh\u013eadu odborn\u00edkov by motiv\u00e1cia mala z\u00e1visie\u0165 najm\u00e4 od konkr\u00e9tnych situ\u00e1ci\u00ed. Napr\u00edklad pri u\u010den\u00ed nov\u00fdch vec\u00ed, by sme mali motivova\u0165 z\u00e1sadne pozit\u00edvne. Plat\u00ed to ako pri \u0161kole, tak pri nov\u00fdch zru\u010dnost\u00ed ako bicyklovanie, pl\u00e1vanie, ma\u013eovanie, \u010di kor\u010du\u013eovanie. Pri \u201ezl\u00fdch\u201c veciach, teda pri poru\u0161ovan\u00ed stanoven\u00fdch pravidiel, je na mieste aj nejak\u00fd ten z\u00e1kaz, alebo trest. Ostatn\u00e9 situ\u00e1cie v \u017eivote v\u0161ak mus\u00edte zhodnoti\u0165 len vy sami.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        3.7\/5 - (7 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Pozit\u00edvna verzus negat\u00edvna motiv\u00e1cia","item":"https:\/\/www.gartier.sk\/pozitivna-verzus-negativna-motivacia\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]